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Good question... I would have... but then she fell asleep... Or was this a trick question, to see how many people ADMIT they're totally self absorbed and complete fuck ups in bed? 🛏️🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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For most part I put my partner first. If my she's not enjoying it, I can't. My pleasure comes from my partner's satisfaction, I'm just a giver. Now on thosw rare occasions when I'm super horny & she's not in the mood, I'll still try to persuade until I get some, but if I see that it's gonna be one of those "I'll just lay down so you can do what you want" type of moment, then I'll pass until you're ready for it lol
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If I'm in bed with someone new, I feel like I'm a failure if she doesnt outnumber me in orgasms for the night. I make it a mission to see how many times i can make her cum for me. I don't do 5-6 times a night with a new hotwife just for myself. Hell I'm good with 2 or 3. I have gotten lazy before, of course, we all do. The longer the relationship the more likely that will be. But I know when she hasn't cum for me and I know that i will feel like I have failed to please her, and if she's not happy with me then it affects everything in the relationship. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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Your description of porn is essentially why I don't care to watch any. I try to be equals with the women I meet - in and out of the bed. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Free pointssss
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6/10/2019 4:32 pm |
Just as it's about finding that perfect gift, or knowing when to just listen, a partner's sexual needs and happiness are spoken to me when I pay attention. Breathe in her breath. See what she sees. Feel her movements. Allowing her to paragraph her needs, she allows me to highlight certain sentences and take notes outside of the margins. ...in which both of our needs and happiness (and satisfaction) decadently complement each other.
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Hola Bella. With my special someone, I don’t look at it as “do I put her sexual pleasure above my own” at all, for me, her pleasure is my pleasure. Watching her, listening to her, feeling her body react to what I’m doing to her, drives me absolutely insane. The pleasure I receive knowing I’m taking her to heights of pleasure she may not have reached before me is immeasurable. It can be so intoxicating that at times I monopolize our time together pleasuring her that I deprive her of the same opportunity to take over my body as I do hers. So to answer your question, her pleasure is most important to me. That’s what a strong connection is. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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Your self description and feelings are probably more indicative of how women really feel about sex with their significant other as time and the pressures of life overtake us. Unless they have a partner who is not only respectful, but, has always looked out for their needs as being a priority in the sexual adventure. Personally, I have always felt the drive for my wife to enjoy our passion more then my own satisfaction. Of course, timing is important and there is no set schedule. That is a feeling that over the years has matured. If she doesn't feel the pleasure and passion, then how can I ? Porn can be used sometimes as an aphrodisiac, I suppose, if both are open to it. But, both being open to any mutual adventure, is paramount, in my view. Only in that way can the adventure continue. If not, then it will wither on the vine. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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I love giving emotionally and sexually. However, after time I need to be with new Women. That is why I swing. I do not want to settle down. I have a swing buddy now. She has sex whom ever she wants to and I do the same. We hang out with swingers, so we all have the same mind set. Relationships are hard. The sex is always hot at the the beginning and then it fizzles out. A few couples we know swing because it keeps their relationship strong. I am not saying that this is for everyone, but I have met a lot of people that have gone in this direction. For me I can keep my sex buddy happy, because we both share the same feelings.
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I think you have hit upon the snags that a LOT of people in long term relationships have... For me sex in its self is an act... intimacy is where I focus... if that intimacy leads to MUTUAL pleasure then great... if not then my own pleasure is second to my partners
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I am definitely of the mindset that sex is a mutual pleasure to be shared by both. I do what I can or have to to make sure my partner has at least as much fun and pleasure as I do. Sometimes it is all about my partner, sometimes it is all about me if that is what they want. I do not push for it because I do love to give pleasure.
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A thought provoking blog. My reply is two words - Mutual Pleasure. Without this there is none, or no real pleasure..... for me it's totally the answer and the direction for feeling 'worth', together as a couple. It's not always easy but it should be the agreed direction.
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When she is happy... then I'm happy. If the woman I'm with is not being satisfied... I/we will figure out what the problem is and make sure she is happy. I get pleasure from giving her pleasure. Usually she wants to give as good as she gets, so it all works out.  Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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