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What the actual...  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
5/30/2019 6:38 pm
What the actual...


I’ve definitely gotten some oddball messages in my time on this site. Rude ones, aggressive ones, bizarre scenarios, and one very odd marriage proposal. But only rarely do I got something that makes me go… what the actual… well you know. But today I got one.

So here it is...

“It's not worth convincing someone of my worth, I'd rather find some ditch who would go with anyone “

That's the whole message.

So the first part is referencing my profile where I say a guy has to convince me he’s worth it. But the rest…. What exactly is he trying to say with this? Hey I have zero self esteem so you should totally sleep with me? Or I can’t be bothered to make any real effort and I’m just messaging you let you know? Or I’m going to totally disrespect what you said in your profile in the hopes you will reply anyway?

What the actual fuck?

angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
5/30/2019 6:38 pm

Throw in a dramatic eye roll too.


mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
5/30/2019 7:06 pm

Looks like someone trying to use those "pick up artist" moves... poorly.


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
5/30/2019 7:29 pm

Tell him to go fuck a ditch. His choice of any ditch.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/30/2019 7:42 pm

My guess is he was actually saying . . .

I'd rather find some bitch who would go with anyone “

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


angeldemoted replies on 5/30/2019 8:21 pm:
Well yeah... but why is he messaging me to tell me this?

MerlynWantsYou 68M

5/30/2019 7:50 pm

The swamp here is bigger than anything in Washington DC ... it's a constant mix of amazement, horror, and terrifying. OTOH People are strange.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/30/2019 9:19 pm

angeldemoted replies on 5/30/2019 9:21 pm:
Well yeah... but why is he messaging me to tell me this?

He doesn't want to have to take the time to convince you he is worthy (because he likely isn't) and he's bitter that you (or anyone) would want him to.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/31/2019 6:46 am

The all to real fact of people acting on profiles that
they really have no business acting on or approaching
rather isn't at all new.Most are largely ignored but
at some point one can only take so much.
It's only when their preferences become based
on disdain that we all lose.

Using more than all the road!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/31/2019 6:23 pm

Love the ditch LOL Sometimes ya gotta let these out in a blog post. I did one tonight. Besides I bet hes trolling for points

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Thequarry 45M

9/10/2019 1:52 pm

Smooth operator lol


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