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When Human Interaction Goes to Shit
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4/24/2019 4:05 am |
Could that be LOVE that I see?
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Could that be LOVE that I see?
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Everyone needs to re-evaluate where they are in life. Everyone. Be it online on a site. or in a career, or in college. Everyone , too, has a choice, "Yes" or "No"... to someone who approaches them..... Should rejection change your approach? Maybe, but if it works, at least once, then it works... no need to change. As for "Archaic"? As long as there are confident men and pretty women, "Wanna fuck" will happily still be around. What are you going to do when a woman comes up to you and says, "Wanna fuck"?................That could happen. Women dress proactively to "Attract". That doesn't mean she's going to say, "Yes", all the time. Men dress sharply, to "Attract". That, too, doesn't mean he's going to say , "Yes" to every woman who approaches him. But, either one, there will be a "Yes" given. ..... and legs will be spread. And on the subject of provocation, you choose to show a sign with an arrow to your crotch... jokingly perhaps, but still being provocative. Nobody is going to stop annoying people with words. Saying , "Single men , don't contact us", isn't going to stop any single man. Some sites have in place, "Specific blockers"... so if a profile has, "No single men" allowed, checked off,.... then the profile doesn't allow the "Single man" to see that profile. "One liners".... some work , and some don't... but a great deal of how well it works is about looks and personality, and confidence. A woman who is attracted to you doesn't care about substance. When she's attracted to you , you can have her. Or the other way around.... When a man is attracted to a woman, she can have him. She can use him. She can get what she needs or wants from him.... no problem. She may keep him around, she may dump him.... that's the way this goes. Human interaction has not gone to shit. Some days there will human interaction bumps in the road... and some days, human interaction will go along very smoothly. Good talk.
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4/17/2019 2:47 am |
"What was then" , was last weekend, so it is now. She and I went to her to her room. Women dress or undress to provoke sexual interest . How a man approaches her , is his decision. This is online or offline. The messaging, "Wanna fuck" is not going away, and really shouldn't. As you said: going to have a variety of different thoughts, wants, and desires all coming from the central point, which is sex. Just continue doing what you do, best. So a person, not happy with the blunt approach, should re-evaluate their need to say here, rather than complain. As it's a choice to tell you to basically fuck off when you inquire about hooking up. You've rattled off various reasons as to why your line of thought is justified, yet, if you do happen to run into someone who gets pissed that you asked them that, they shouldn't whine and simply accept it as status quo. No, Sir; despite the fact yes, this is a sex site, doesn't give any one person a right to do anything they damn well please - like the insane idea I believe you mentioned in a response that if a woman dressed provocatively is inviting a guy to ask them wanna fuck. A woman makes the choice to expose herself, and you're thinking it's an open invitation to spread her legs simply because we're on this site? And of course, you'll answer yes. It's making an assumption, that time and time again I've read over and over in either one's profile or in a blog post, that's annoying people to no end. Blunt works for you, but often than not, it's confidence bordering on cockiness. And the reason a majority of people, single women, couples, etc keep stating "Single Men, Don''t Contact Us." You may be confident enough to have a few women buy into you're ideology willingly flirting because it's an exciting measure, and because, like you said, we're on a sex site. Other than that, most tire of the notion. Plus, really, how many times can you really approach a woman with a one-liner with no real substance other getting straight to the point. I'm going to equate your age not to experience but to the old line of thinking that's as archaic as you are. The line "Wanna fuck," will unfortunately never go away, like you, that's the saddest part of it all. Of course, you'll line up another response in kind, and you're welcome to do so. But I didn't intend my post to be a lengthy discussion, as it was just an observation on my part. And since we're talking about choices here, please, do me a favor, and save it. I think you're better served seeing if another hook up is in order instead spending it chatting with me.
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- What was then, isn't now; ideologies of individuals change, evolve - to simply state the use of forward thinking approaches to getting a woman for a romp is as easy as snapping one's fingers might work in social circles like that club where everyone is just there to have a good time. As you mention in your profile, "Want to have fun?" And I dig it - it's worked for you, for a number of years, so why fix it if it isn't broke. In fact women, men who carry a large amount of confidence in everything they do will get what they want and champion the idea of instant gratification, if it were just shrugging the shoulders and saying to one's self, "Oh, what the hell." in return. But the popularity of a site such as this, which has managed to survive for this long are going to have a variety of different thoughts, wants, and desires all coming from the central point, which is sex. Just continue doing what you do, best. And let those who who have a different way of going about it travel on their one sensual path. In the long run, I'll be there to observe it, and you best know I'll probably write about it again too. Women dress or undress to provoke sexual interest . How a man approaches her , is his decision. This is online or offline. The messaging, "Wanna fuck" is not going away, and really shouldn't. As you said: going to have a variety of different thoughts, wants, and desires all coming from the central point, which is sex. Just continue doing what you do, best. So a person, not happy with the blunt approach, should re-evaluate their need to say here, rather than complain.
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4/16/2019 7:01 pm |
Okay, again.. I'm not attacking you. Your guess of 99.9 percent of people not appreciating a blunt , "Wanna fuck"... should re-evaluate if they should be here, because this is the most perfect site for that to happen. This is why in 1996 this site soared to great fame. As for seriously doubting,.... I, or any male, or for that matter any woman, would approach someone in a bar and say "Wanna fuck"...... don't doubt that. ...........This does happen, I know it happens, and I've done it successfully many times over, and women have done this , too, to me. I'll account for your age , and what you may be more accustomed to, but I assure you, if you have the confidence , you could approach a woman, in a club/lounge on a weekend night, and invite her to have a fuck with you . What you may be referring to as "Bad apples" , may just be men who are more experienced and more confident , than other men who can't quite wrap their minds around that approach. This is a sex site. Whatever invitation a person gets , is always answered with a "Yes" or "No"..... this is not really that much of a big deal. As you mention in your profile, "Want to have fun?" And I dig it - it's worked for you, for a number of years, so why fix it if it isn't broke. In fact women, men who carry a large amount of confidence in everything they do will get what they want and champion the idea of instant gratification, if it were just shrugging the shoulders and saying to one's self, "Oh, what the hell." in return. But the popularity of a site such as this, which has managed to survive for this long are going to have a variety of different thoughts, wants, and desires all coming from the central point, which is sex. Just continue doing what you do, best. And let those who who have a different way of going about it travel on their one sensual path. In the long run, I'll be there to observe it, and you best know I'll probably write about it again too.
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- I've been here for a number of years, so I'm perfectly fine where I'm at. But there you go assuming I'd be better off on a different site. I won't explain the purpose of my post, because you totally missed what I was writing about, which was merely an observation. Down to the nitty gritty: If anyone welcomes the idea of fancying a fuck with a greeting that simply says that straightforward, by all means, more power to the both of you. However, I'd theorize that maybe 99.9% of people really don't appreciate anyone coming at them with that kind of greeting. And that's the problem I've noticed with social media, that chaps can come out and say what they please thinking there's no harm in it. I seriously doubt you'd come up to a woman in a public place and ask her the same way you'd do it on here. Again, just so you know, I know exactly what this place is, ever thought of maybe gauging the conversation and seeing how it goes before straight up going with the line, "Wanna fuck?" Yes, this is sex, and it can be a heavenly place, but damn if some bad apples don't make it worst for the rest of us. I'm sure you're a nice guy, for the most part, who loves sex as well as any man out there. Do yourself a favor and 1) don't assume, and 2) have some tact and respect for yourself and the person you're talking to, less you forgot she is an actual person you're chatting with. Your guess of 99.9 percent of people not appreciating a blunt , "Wanna fuck"... should re-evaluate if they should be here, because this is the most perfect site for that to happen. This is why in 1996 this site soared to great fame. As for seriously doubting,.... I, or any male, or for that matter any woman, would approach someone in a bar and say "Wanna fuck"...... don't doubt that. ...........This does happen, I know it happens, and I've done it successfully many times over, and women have done this , too, to me. I'll account for your age , and what you may be more accustomed to, but I assure you, if you have the confidence , you could approach a woman, in a club/lounge on a weekend night, and invite her to have a fuck with you . What you may be referring to as "Bad apples" , may just be men who are more experienced and more confident , than other men who can't quite wrap their minds around that approach. This is a sex site. Whatever invitation a person gets , is always answered with a "Yes" or "No"..... this is not really that much of a big deal.
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4/16/2019 5:58 pm |
I'm in no way attacking you as a person....unless you are identifying somehow, some way, which is beyond my control. But again, this is the perfect [Adult] site to tell , or ask a woman if she wants to fuck. Better here, than on a Time Magazine conversation site. Wouldn't you agree? And there is rational reasoning in finding a site you're [meaning: any person] more comfortable participating. Down to the nitty gritty: If anyone welcomes the idea of fancying a fuck with a greeting that simply says that straightforward, by all means, more power to the both of you. However, I'd theorize that maybe 99.9% of people really don't appreciate anyone coming at them with that kind of greeting. And that's the problem I've noticed with social media, that chaps can come out and say what they please thinking there's no harm in it. I seriously doubt you'd come up to a woman in a public place and ask her the same way you'd do it on here. Again, just so you know, I know exactly what this place is, ever thought of maybe gauging the conversation and seeing how it goes before straight up going with the line, "Wanna fuck?" Yes, this is sex, and it can be a heavenly place, but damn if some bad apples don't make it worst for the rest of us. I'm sure you're a nice guy, for the most part, who loves sex as well as any man out there. Do yourself a favor and 1) don't assume, and 2) have some tact and respect for yourself and the person you're talking to, less you forgot she is an actual person you're chatting with.
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- Well, since you enjoy making assumptions based on apparent certainties you see in front of you, here's my two cents. Thanks for responding and thinking I'm one of those complainer types, when the purpose of my post was simply just a personal observation of what goes on in here on a daily basis. But since you took my post as some kind of attack, where you're defending those certain actions, it leads me to presume you're the kind of individual I'm writing about in my piece. Yet, this is what's great about this country, the ability to speak freely and having what I'm lead to believe are constructive discussions about it. However, I take it having that exchange isn't in your cards, as evident by your sexual success rate (sorry assumption) and your particular take about how people like myself and those who are self respecting but sexually inclined (if you got to know), should basically get the fuck out. Yes, there is a time and place for everything. But to get annoyed and pissed at a woman who isn't giving you the time of day because you ask her, "Wanna fuck?" well then maybe, this isn't your place to be on the playground with the rest of the adults. But again, this is the perfect [Adult] site to tell , or ask a woman if she wants to fuck. Better here, than on a Time Magazine conversation site. Wouldn't you agree? And there is rational reasoning in finding a site you're [meaning: any person] more comfortable participating.
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4/16/2019 5:33 pm |
- Social media can be a fun thing, but I think the abuse of power is too rampant. That said, I enjoy being on here
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4/16/2019 5:32 pm |
Great post, I totally agree, manners have gone out of the window... fancy a fuck,, will not get anywhere with me... I like to chat... exchange full sentences... peak my interest,,, the dick is a tool... I don't want to be hammered all the time!! I want to do different things, think about different things.. be MADE to think! Thanks for stopping in! Feel free to swing by again!
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4/16/2019 5:31 pm |
- I think sometimes humanity between others is lost on humans themselves; yes, we are those sensual beings, but there's has to be a good balance between tact and brute honesty to start in order to get the possibility of a conversation going in the right direction.
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4/16/2019 5:29 pm |
When social media was a brand new toy, we logged on with naive anticipation that we would find someone perfect for us......but as months and years [and for some of you] decades pass.....why haven't you figured out yet, this is not the kind of site you should be on?! Instead some take the stance of bellyache-er, bitch-er, complainer. The chat sites were new 22 years ago. So why are these people still so naive , or lets just say, "Slow" , in the retarded sense of the word? Sites , like this one, you should absolutely expect, "Wanna fuck" , "Fancy a fuck"! Tap a few keys, go find your muse chat site that best suits who you are, what you want. ....Why is that so difficult for some? In 20 some years, all varieties of chat sites have arrived on the internet. So why are there idiots complaining they're getting "Wanna fuck" on a sex site [the most appropriate kind of site on the planet] , when you know you're looking for intellectual conversation, or some form of other gab. [Do us all a favor, and yourself, too].....Go find that site that most suits your needs! Don't bellyache about what you find here, not adhering to your specifications. We all should know by now, there are many different varieties of chat sites on the internet. Even specific News / Magazine sites have "Join the conversation" at the end of the article. The women [on this site and it's sex based affiliates] who complain she's getting "Fuck" invitations and not invitations for long intellectual conversation, ......on a sex site, where men go to, hopefully,find sex, is a woman who should re-evaluate what she's doing and where she's doing it. Clearly she should be on the kind of sites that caters to intellectual musings, or "How to be a better cook for her man" site... or anything other than a "Fuck" site, if she's not in the mood for , "Wanna fuck" invitations. .... Come back when you are in the mood. Same thing for homosexuals [cd , Tg, gays, etc] getting upset they are being persecuted and beat on, by words, for who they are, ..... are also people who should re-evaluate. Clearly these homosexual should seek homosexual sties. I'm not preaching segregation... I'm preaching "Wise up" ....be where you should be that most suits your objective. If the choice is to remain here, whoever , whatever, you may be, then stop whining about what you find here. Your choice. Think about it But since you took my post as some kind of attack, where you're defending those certain actions, it leads me to presume you're the kind of individual I'm writing about in my piece. Yet, this is what's great about this country, the ability to speak freely and having what I'm lead to believe are constructive discussions about it. However, I take it having that exchange isn't in your cards, as evident by your sexual success rate (sorry assumption) and your particular take about how people like myself and those who are self respecting but sexually inclined (if you got to know), should basically get the fuck out. Yes, there is a time and place for everything. But to get annoyed and pissed at a woman who isn't giving you the time of day because you ask her, "Wanna fuck?" well then maybe, this isn't your place to be on the playground with the rest of the adults.
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When social media was a brand new toy, we logged on with naive anticipation that we would find someone perfect for us......but as months and years [and for some of you] decades pass.....why haven't you figured out yet, this is not the kind of site you should be on?! Instead some take the stance of bellyache-er, bitch-er, complainer. The chat sites were new 22 years ago. So why are these people still so naive , or lets just say, "Slow" , in the retarded sense of the word? Sites , like this one, you should absolutely expect, "Wanna fuck" , "Fancy a fuck"! Tap a few keys, go find your muse chat site that best suits who you are, what you want. ....Why is that so difficult for some? In 20 some years, all varieties of chat sites have arrived on the internet. So why are there idiots complaining they're getting "Wanna fuck" on a sex site [the most appropriate kind of site on the planet] , when you know you're looking for intellectual conversation, or some form of other gab. [Do us all a favor, and yourself, too].....Go find that site that most suits your needs! Don't bellyache about what you find here, not adhering to your specifications. We all should know by now, there are many different varieties of chat sites on the internet. Even specific News / Magazine sites have "Join the conversation" at the end of the article. The women [on this site and it's sex based affiliates] who complain she's getting "Fuck" invitations and not invitations for long intellectual conversation, ......on a sex site, where men go to, hopefully,find sex, is a woman who should re-evaluate what she's doing and where she's doing it. Clearly she should be on the kind of sites that caters to intellectual musings, or "How to be a better cook for her man" site... or anything other than a "Fuck" site, if she's not in the mood for , "Wanna fuck" invitations. .... Come back when you are in the mood. Same thing for homosexuals [cd , Tg, gays, etc] getting upset they are being persecuted and beat on, by words, for who they are, ..... are also people who should re-evaluate. Clearly these homosexual should seek homosexual sties. I'm not preaching segregation... I'm preaching "Wise up" ....be where you should be that most suits your objective. If the choice is to remain here, whoever , whatever, you may be, then stop whining about what you find here. Your choice. Think about it
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Great post, I totally agree, manners have gone out of the window... fancy a fuck,, will not get anywhere with me... I like to chat... exchange full sentences... peak my interest,,, the dick is a tool... I don't want to be hammered all the time!! I want to do different things, think about different things.. be MADE to think!
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4/16/2019 4:44 am |
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