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BigRig692021 42M
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fubar2night 40M
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4/23/2018 6:03 pm

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WeCudFuK 52M

4/23/2018 8:26 pm

Everyone is used at some point, and for some reason.


BigRig692021 replies on 4/25/2018 2:23 pm:
I understand that but for me...it's not tolerated now more than ever. When a guy put's all of his emotions and feelings into a woman, he should get something in return to the same accordance. Would you agree upon that?

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/23/2018 8:42 pm

Do all you guys really see the significant of a guy being "used"? .... How is she using the guy , makes the difference. For instance if she wants your dick for a quick one, and doesn't want to hangout with you later, that should be just fine with you.

but when does it onto a point where a guy feel likes he's being used for HER selfish purposes? .... If it's not about getting your money or about her getting you to impregnate her, don't worry about it.

I've gone through that with one woman alone and will not tolerate it again!!!! .... You're not really clear about what's troubling you.
A woman wants a "connection" as much as a man .... Not necessarily. Sometimes a woman just wants a good fucking from someone available at the time. Didn't your dad explain this to you?

but when he see's that connection is there but without HER as responding to that connection alone...what do you "women" are thinking? ... She's thinking she just wants some dick. Not a commitment, and maybe not ever see you again. She may likely go out with other males, not just you.

I alone had a woman who I had that connection with and loved very dearly but it turned out that I was only a pawn in her game of chess. ....LOL... yes, so what?! Women trade up to better men as long as she has her youth still working for her.

By the way, how long were you together? What exactly did she do?


BigRig692021 42M

4/25/2018 2:26 pm

This whole post was from what I have dealt with in dealing with a girlfriend I used to have that went from fwb, to couple, back to fwb, to friend, and then to nothing. Now do you all get what I am saying or do I need to elaborate even more?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/26/2018 3:31 am

    Quoting BigRig692021:
    This whole post was from what I have dealt with in dealing with a girlfriend I used to have that went from fwb, to couple, back to fwb, to friend, and then to nothing. Now do you all get what I am saying or do I need to elaborate even more?
This whole post was from what I have dealt with in dealing with a girlfriend ... She wasn't a "Girlfriend" if she was your "FwB".

The "Fwb" can date many others. The concept of the "Fwb" is there for you when you are going through a sex-dry spell. Can't get a date... can't find a relationship. The "Fwb" is sorta like a survival ration packet that holds you over until you get rescued.

I used to have that went from fwb, to couple, ... That's where you messed up. You got confused about what the "F" stands for, and when that should happen, if at all.

You probably first tried to be "Friends" with her. That's the mistake.

The other mistake was allowing the euphoria of sex , to get to you, to cause you to think you could be a "Couple".

back to fwb, to friend, and then to nothing. .... Sure, the "Couple" idea wasn't working, so one of you, -probably you- suggested going back to how things use to be. But now that sucks because she wants to date other people and you're getting bothered by that.

Then she talked you into, "Let's be friends"..... Never be just friends with a chick you want to bang.

When the "Couple" mistake busted, that's when you should have completely walked away.

do I need to elaborate even more? .... You're certainly welcome to elaborate. Through my experiences of blog answering, the author of the topic always leaves out important details.

In the future., if you do the "Fwb" thing again... .don't be "Friends" first. Establish if there can be"Benefits" first. Think of it as "Benefits with friendship"....Not "Friendship with benefits".

Your situation melted down to nothing because you tried to start out as friends.


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