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Whats your style?  

bitchkitty2017 71F
2245 posts
6/25/2019 8:50 am
Whats your style?


When i ask question its not maybe as it sounds..and why? because it may not be exactly a question someone else may put in context..Everyone has a unique style suited to their own person..like he may not write a story as efficiently as say the next guy, or she may not dress as fashionably as the next woman..trends to the amount of diversity know as the human population change every day but style most generally stay the same..if your style of writing , wording or questioning is basically the same each time then style suited to you keeps pretty much the same...
Trends like the seasons change they are the things may be cool or in fashion today but maybe not tomorrow or next week ..so keeping with trends sometimes is very tiring to say the least...as with style...sometimes they do as well get boring and tiresome to others but we see them as a constant but again do not see them as maybe boring and unchanging as other do.
Ok so why is it when show our style and question things find a bit confusing people go all unglued about it? Innocently sometimes dont understand a comment or something is worded in a way do not understand and ask about it is our style ..it turns into a big issue. Today its becoming so a person cannot be outspoken they are flogged in public so to speak by voicing an opinion, writing in a style suited to them , or even asking a question so the clarification of it can be understood..People get feeling hurt too much today because someone does not agree with them or the bash and names because they cannot accept those people who have their own style of doing things.
**** personal note here
Most people today are no different than sheep if one leads the rest follow and if the one leading jumps off of a cliff the rest follow..because it is no different than one saying something and the rest say yes sir no sir three bags full sir...Its the people who are yes people agree with the leader...not all people are followers and thats what sets them aside from the rest and thats what gives them labels ...

bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 8:53 am

Opinions do count and comments do separate the followers from the rebels.


AverageChandler 39M

6/25/2019 8:58 am

My style is completely nude


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 9:01 am

well i am sure some of the women are appreciative of it and some like me are not..you have two pics of your dick and what i can see is a follower because most guys have dick pics on their profile ..lol thanks anyway


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/25/2019 9:19 am

Like you I have my own style and way of wording things . I question what I do not understand if it's not written clearly. Here is a good example:

" Moving in two weeks, what is an inexpensive item anyone should have that isn't beans?"
How in hell is someone on a panel supposed to address this??I sure do not give beans if she is moving or not- OR is she going grocery shopping for the new place? Can't wait to see what others tell her. I told her I had no idea what she was looking for and to re-state her question. Of course, I came across like she was dumb or wrote her query in a dumb manner but that's what happens when it's words on"paper" with little to no inflection. And my kind of reply is what starts "wars" or will get me labeled.
My style is basically traditional both clothing and attitude. Be succinct, be concise, be polite, even when your thoughts and beliefs do not coincide with another persons. As for clothes, traditional goes everywhere at any season and fads come and go with the wind.
Good query!!

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looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
6/25/2019 9:21 am

I have an opinion on almost everything. Open and bluntly honest with lots of humor and some sarcasim thrown in.
Some people will call it judgemental but I believe they are wrong. I like to debate but do not like to argue.
If I am not allowed to put my 2 cents worth in I will change the topic or end a conversation.
I did't know whether to put anything here at all.
Everybody is a little bit intimidated by the wrath (lol) of BitchKitty2017


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 9:29 am

    Quoting  :

True leader never leads the flock into danger in fact a good true leader protects them from harm..good comment greatly appreciated..words form a basic idea into the mind not always getting a good idea of the person who write them


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 9:33 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Like you I have my own style and way of wording things . I question what I do not understand if it's not written clearly. Here is a good example:

    " Moving in two weeks, what is an inexpensive item anyone should have that isn't beans?"
    How in hell is someone on a panel supposed to address this??I sure do not give beans if she is moving or not- OR is she going grocery shopping for the new place? Can't wait to see what others tell her. I told her I had no idea what she was looking for and to re-state her question. Of course, I came across like she was dumb or wrote her query in a dumb manner but that's what happens when it's words on"paper" with little to no inflection. And my kind of reply is what starts "wars" or will get me labeled.
    My style is basically traditional both clothing and attitude. Be succinct, be concise, be polite, even when your thoughts and beliefs do not coincide with another persons. As for clothes, traditional goes everywhere at any season and fads come and go with the wind.
    Good query!!
I know you have your own style and have your own and i get the bashing alot because i do ask what i do not understand..I just lately accused of being a cyber bully because i questioned a statement i did not understand..it was all very innocent but was taken way out of context.....wars are started over seemingly innocent comments or questions worst part is she made a blog to enforce her misunderstanding of what i was asking or questioning...and had a list of followers bashing me as well ..made little sense...sigh !


OldTatted 64M

6/25/2019 11:08 am

I definitely don't follow trends of any sort, be it writing or dressing or even "acting" who you are. I write the way I talk. I just think it out and let it flow but it is hard for my fingers to keep up. Sometimes my mind is just to quick for my fingers to get to write it all and then that thought turns into a cloud of dust and *poof* it's gone. I dress the same way I always have, one foot at a time. Oh my clothes. Well I have always been a t-shirt and jeans type of guy. ( I have ridden bikes for 40 years or so)
I also ask questions if I don't understand anything and if they can't handle that or get all puffy eyed and start to cry and call me a bully instead of just answering the damn sentence, then screw them. They weren't worth talking to anyways.

Oh and I see somebody got pissed for being a sheep. Hahahaha


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 12:57 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    I have an opinion on almost everything. Open and bluntly honest with lots of humor and some sarcasim thrown in.
    Some people will call it judgemental but I believe they are wrong. I like to debate but do not like to argue.
    If I am not allowed to put my 2 cents worth in I will change the topic or end a conversation.
    I did't know whether to put anything here at all.
    Everybody is a little bit intimidated by the wrath (lol) of BitchKitty2017
ok so just hold it right there sport...I dont know who you are and being judgemental is what people do when they agree with other on here who dont actually give themselves a chance to get to know the real me ..as far as wrath ? you cannot be further from the truth about me...but because you judge me on someone elses opinion then you are entitled to your opinion even if i dont agree with it..thanks anyway....good you are not judgemental or i guess i would really get a bashing from you.


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 1:00 pm

    Quoting OldTatted:
    I definitely don't follow trends of any sort, be it writing or dressing or even "acting" who you are. I write the way I talk. I just think it out and let it flow but it is hard for my fingers to keep up. Sometimes my mind is just to quick for my fingers to get to write it all and then that thought turns into a cloud of dust and *poof* it's gone. I dress the same way I always have, one foot at a time. Oh my clothes. Well I have always been a t-shirt and jeans type of guy. ( I have ridden bikes for 40 years or so)
    I also ask questions if I don't understand anything and if they can't handle that or get all puffy eyed and start to cry and call me a bully instead of just answering the damn sentence, then screw them. They weren't worth talking to anyways.

    Oh and I see somebody got pissed for being a sheep. Hahahaha
thanks and yeah those who cant handle the truth and get all bent out of shape because someone does not agree with all they say its not a big deal to me...lol people dont know how to deal with someone who doesnt jump up at night and holler about them ..i agree with your screw 'em attitude ...thanx..


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/25/2019 2:26 pm

I don’t really know what my style is. I just know I am always right. 🤪


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 2:38 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I don’t really know what my style is. I just know I am always right. 🤪
lol thats a good answer ..and the question can mean anything right from what you are good at or not and what your clothing choices ..pretty much anything...thanks got a giggle from it...


eroticgolem 56M
39 posts
6/25/2019 3:16 pm

As a writer my style has evolved over the years. I suppose in many ways I rebel against the political correctness that controls much of what we can say or do publicly.
There is very little non-conformity in this country, we are, for the most part sheep. You make a valid point: Most men feel compelled to display dick pics because other men do.
Pity, because a site like this should encourage rather discourage individualism and the expression of a truly personal style.


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/25/2019 3:49 pm

    Quoting eroticgolem:
    As a writer my style has evolved over the years. I suppose in many ways I rebel against the political correctness that controls much of what we can say or do publicly.
    There is very little non-conformity in this country, we are, for the most part sheep. You make a valid point: Most men feel compelled to display dick pics because other men do.
    Pity, because a site like this should encourage rather discourage individualism and the expression of a truly personal style.
yes i agree with your point of encouraging individualism but the diversity of the masses and the individual styles , traits or conformity will always take the forefront ...the site should encourage but they are a business not a mediator every time someone falls short of everyones expectations...sheep are easily led when the leaders are not true leaders...a true leader does not put his flock in danger he or she puts themselves in the lead because of danger...I do agree with being a writer we do evolve beyond the political correctness and rise above the crowds of those who are just out to prove that ignorance still exists in abundance as is proven on this site lately...but it goes way beyond the scope of here...yes?


scoupe42 60M

6/26/2019 8:06 pm

I'll follow to a point, but If I disagree, I go my separate way.


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/27/2019 6:06 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I'll follow to a point, but If I disagree, I go my separate way.
as we all should because being adults no one should rule you and no one should presume to think you will have to take sides..but there are haters who just have to have a following of people who agree with them and have to take sides on every one of their disagreements between the hater and someone else who rocks their boat...I read a blog that trashes another member who is very outspoken like me that gets trashed because of the hater...i will stand up for them regardless..it is so terribly childish for the one who hates to expect the rest to follow..that is so wrong


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