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Oklahoma City
Posted:May 25, 2019 11:44 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2019 1:10 am
Why haven't I moved to Oklahoma before? That answer came screaming back into my head tonight, Tornadoes! Si reins wailing, phones going off with tornado warnings, news with live updates.

If I had to live anywhere with tornadoes it would be OKC. The warning / alert system is the best anywhere. The weather radar is the best in the world. They can tell you what street it is crossing. The radar can show a debris field before the tornado is showing up. It is absolutely amazing.

None the less, an hour in the shelter tells me to think twice. I felt better knowing I wasn't just sitting in a hole for nothing. The weather man was right, it was coming right down our highway but went north 8- miles before us. Second thoughts yes but there is always the BBQ. The picture of the wall cloud is what greeted coming into OK on my trip over.

55 Gallons
Posted:Apr 4, 2019 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2019 12:05 pm

I found myself browsing a site today. I'll checkout the clearance area and the overstock area. I made it to the end of the overstock listings and I find:

Ready to have enough lubricant to last you quite a long time? Presenting the Passion Water-Silicone Hybrid Drum -

55 gallons! 's what is available when you pick this drum of Passion lubricant. The formula, itself, is a specialty blend of silicone and water-based. This way you get the benefits of each type without the weaknesses. With water-based, you get ease of use, versatility, and easy clean-. With silicone-based, you get the slickness and the ability to use the lube with silicone sex toys. The drum also includes a rotary pump handle. And, keep in mind, this makes for a great conversation starter.
55 Gallon Passion Water-Silicone Hybrid Lubricant Specs and Benefits:

Size: 55 gallons/ 208 liters
Weight: 482lbs
Note: Includes rotary pump.
The formula is a special blend of water-based and silicone-based
Water-based: Ease of use, versatility, and easy cleanup
Silicone-based: Extra slickness, and ability to use with silicone sex toys

This made two questions pop into my head.
1: Who needs 55 gallons of lube?
2: How much did the store buy to land it in the overstock listings?
Search missing Last Login Feature
Posted:Feb 13, 2019 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2019 10:08 am

I just noticed that the search functions no longer allow you to limit results to active users.
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First meet / date
Posted:Feb 12, 2019 9:13 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2019 5:15 pm

This assumes your not just meeting for a hookup. Where do you go for a first meet /date? I ran into a need for a nontraditional first. I have been communicating with this woman for what seems like months. We had become good friends. The sex side of things flew out the window early on. We are still wanting to do a first date. Valentines Day is right here. It feels very strange when you are new to dating each other. Remember non-traditional. Add your own ideas in your comments.

So what you do for a different style of first date?
A day of paintball. (our choice)
Throwing Axes. Yes this is real.
Bowling. Plenty of time for talking and joking
An Escape Room. Fun and will show exactly how smart you are.
I can't believe you left mine out..
10 Comments , 15 votes
Right Place - g Time
Posted:Dec 15, 2018 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2019 9:49 am

Many of you have probably heard this story, but many more haven't. I enjoy stories about unplanned events in music that are meaningful when looked back upon. This is one of those nights which is hard to believe. The stars lined up and the magic that is music just happened.

When most people think of Nashville they think of Country music. Many things were happening in Nashville, January of 1969. There was an accidental meeting with some of the greatest names in the gwriting world. On this day, simply by chance Kris Kristoffer, Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Graham Nash, and Shel Silverstein all spent an evening at Johnny Cash’s home in Henderville, TN.

Johnny Cash was recording ‘The Johnny Cash Show’. Bob Dylan was in town to record 'Nashville Skyline’. Dylan was staying at Johnny Cash's home. Joni Mitchell was in town to be on 'The Johnny Cash Show’. Graham Nash was dating Mitchell and had tagged along on her trip. It was common for guest of Johnny's TV show to stay at his house. Kris Kristoffer and Shel Silverstein were Nashville gwriters that would show up anywhere their gs might be heard by big name performers. Simply by chance these great gwriters are together at once.

So what happens when gwriters get together? You have a gwriters circle and swap gs and tell stories about music. The gs that were played at this gwriter circle are historic. It had been reported that this was the first time any of these were played but that is not true. Mitchell and Nash played gs that had already been recorded. The three other gs were born on this night. Jonni Mitchell sang ‘Both Sides Now,’ Graham Nash sang ‘Marrakesh Express,’ Shel Silverstein sang ‘A Boy Named Sue,’ Bob Dylan sang ‘Lay Lady Lay,’ and Kristoffer sang ‘Me & Bobby McGee.’

The music showcased that night all in one place by the original gwriters is something historic and totally random and unexpected. That is magic, that is music.
Faking It
Posted:Dec 4, 2018 7:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2019 5:16 pm

We all know that fake accounts exist on this site and others. There are the schemes where they try and take your money. Some social engineer you so they can blackmail you. There are many others but I want to talk about the ones that simply do it for fun and are directed at men. Whatever their motivation (boredom, living in mom's basement, age ) they simply get a kick out of it.

What are some of the indicators we can use to identify these people? I know some users are going to complain that they do this or that and they are not fake. I would consider doing things a little bit different if you do a lot of them.

Standard Member - Told you there would be complaints. Yes, some Gold members do this too. Hello McDs worker with a credit card, more complaints. This is simply the no cost way of doing it. They can create as many as they like. Just throw it out there and wait on someone to make contact. Remember, they live in mom's basement and if it has a lazy way of being done sign them up.

Blank to almost blank profile. You might see something along the lines of “looking for a friend” or a sex starved looking for NSA or FWB if they were feeling creative that day. They may say married and description says single. Location, location, location. That little town of 700 people has a lot of women on here.

With a picture. The picture doesn't match description if there is any. For example the picture is a blonde and profile says dark hair. A very cropped picture so it can't be found with picture search. She doesn't look 45, wow. Damn that is a great camera, it looks professional!

Filled out with a picture. The profile reads classy and then throws in the hook of must like to lick or how great they suck. Again, the profile reads nice but the picture is pornographic. Basically, the writing style and picture don't match.

Wants to go off site. This isn't bad by itself. My own experience is chat sucks. Be happy if it works for you. So you get, here's my k.i.k - uraskr123. The whole thing makes no sense. They are new to this, k.i.k. is 3 years old, picture doesn't look like a woman would have it on their profile, name makes no sense given what you believe to know about this per, won't video chat for even 10 seconds.

This is not a complete list of things. What other signs do you look for?
I just noticed they edit out k.i.k.
Questions for the ladies...
Posted:Nov 26, 2018 5:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2018 1:54 pm

I have never met anyone on this site and had an actual encounter. I was on another site and the only encounters I had were because of the other per contacting me. Have you had an encounter with someone on this site? Did you find contact them or did they contact you?
What did you mean?
Posted:Nov 26, 2018 5:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2018 2:25 am

I'm slightly introverted. I'm quick thinking and very decisive at work. Pick me up and drop me into a conversation, whoa. Slam on the brakes, especially if it's a stranger(s). That is a part of my perality. I listen very carefully instead of talk.

We have many ways to communicate on this site and they allow me to react at a speed I like. There is IM, email, chatrooms, interest groups, blogs and others. These all have one giant flaw that impacts me and I'm sure plenty of others. It's just flat letters on a flat screen.

We are communicating with each other completely emotionless. We can listen but never hear. It's too easy to be misunderstood. Words have too many meanings. The rest of our language kicks in to help determine which meaning is intended. Again, they are just flat words on a flat screen.

We do not see compassion in someone's eyes or hear the fear in a voice. We can be excited or angry or so many other emotions. I could simply type "Look" and you have no idea how I intended that to be interpreted. Sure you have the words around it but many times that doesn't clarify things. I can add punctuation or get really creative with an emoji. How do you make sure everyone knows you are being sincere and not snarky; angry not passionate?

What do you try to do so this is reduced? Do you think we can get past this? Are we past it and I'm still waiting on the bus? How often are the words you type misunderstood? I wear emotions on my sleeve, that's who I am, so it is very easy for me to be misunderstood or at least I think I am misunderstood. Does anyone else even see this as an issue? Throw out your thoughts and let's see.
You have a fuzzy what?
Posted:Nov 23, 2018 6:10 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2018 7:42 pm

I'm sound asleep and I hear a noise. It starts out incredibly gentle as if it is intended to keep me asleep. It slowly increases in volume. The sound has suddenly changed in to a deep rumble like a diesel engine. Suddenly I am not asleep anymore. I open my eyes hoping I can see clearly. The Gods have not ruled in my favor today.

I opened my eyes to a new day that begins butt! It must be 6:00 am. They don't care if I was up until 2:30 am or asleep before 10:00 pm, they still want fed. I have one cat that could wake me up like an alarm clock radio.

Actually, it was the alarm clock radio. He would jump up on the chest of drawers and find his way to the radio. He has it memorized. It is the second from the left. He slowly lifts his right paw and puts it down directly on its target. Suddenly the radio is blaring and I have no choice but to get out of bed. He won today but there is always tomorrow.

Do you have a pet (s)? What type of pet is it? What annoying thing do they torment you with?
Crappy Sex....
Posted:Nov 20, 2018 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2019 11:41 pm
I have to begin by generally excluding long term couples married or not. You signed up for the long haul. This is mainly aimed at nsa, fwb or early dating situations.

I have read blog posts, had conversations and overhead conversations (mostly women) on the subject of bad sex. Why do people continue to have sex when it isn't any good?

Your partner is selfish and doesn't put value on you being able to orgasm. Maybe they never get off. Your partner doesn't have a clue about foreplay and you place a high value on it. They don't do things you like such as oral sex or whatever. They don't communicate. They can't follow you no matter how much you try. Finally, maybe they just plain suck.

Why does this have little importance to some, especially on a sex dating site like AdultxxxDate? Why put up with it? How many chances do you give them? Why is it that many?
This is insane ...
Posted:Nov 8, 2018 8:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2018 10:23 am
You should leave if you don't like what some would call a political post. I call it reality because it is not based on my political beliefs. I a live and let live guy. I walking out to my car today and noticed something that punched me in the gut. I look up and there it is, another American flag at half mast. I don't force my beliefs on others. I don't want to take any guns away from people. I don't want to change the Constitution, that is ridiculous. People with or without guns, whatever political beliefs or any other devisive line you want to draw have to pull their heads out of their ass. Something is wrong with how things are today. Saying there is no problem defies reality. I have a friend with 40+ guns, others with no gun and everything in between. That does not bother me one bit. I don't care if you own a gun or not, something is wrong either way.

Post your replies but don't be rude, demeaning, aggressive or anything else resembling an asshole.
Posted:Oct 15, 2018 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2019 7:21 am

I understand ghosting. It is a tool that must be used in certain situations. Some people don't take rejection well no matter how polite you are. Some people are just rude assholes. Others are simply bad people and are beyond abusive.

I will never understand when ghosting Is the means of rejection. I'm not talking about messages on the site, hell even emails off the site. I had a recent encounter where we had messaged on the site. We moved on to trading pictures and all is great. The other per reached out, gave their number and said text me. I text, we convers a few times then poof. I'm not rude by any stretch of the imagination. Nothing bad happened on either of our parts.

Why ghost then? Why not a simple "I am not interested." or"No thanks." That is just rude. I get that people change their minds, get cold feet or whatever. Why be rude when nothing bad has happened?

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