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Getting to a "yes"
Posted:Jan 12, 2019 4:27 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2019 4:51 am
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The man of this couple, being Bi (mostly as an oral giver) plays (m/m) frequently. The search and decide process for this is fairly simple an the pace is quick. AF has been working well for this... very discreet.

The beautiful straight Hot-wife plays far less frequently (mfm). The search and decide process is less simple and slower.

We are kind, compassionate, sensitive people exploring ourselves rather than, say, desperate or racing around. The following is THE MOST important to us when meeting people to consider for a playdate:

Respectful conversations by AF - message (NEVER INSTANT MESSAGE - just don't have the time for such) or Email if we give it that. Respectful means:

-We all bring real information about you and ask decent questions too.
-We all wrap up each conversation - like:

"we still might be a good match - let's continue this conversation tomorrow or ______________" THEN SHOW UP AND CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION PLEASE

"we are prob not a good match, thanks for your time"

"looks like we are a great match, let's talk schedule"

We wish we did not have to list these examples here, but the amount of people who have been this respectful has been, maybe, 20%. What we hope to do by way of this blog post is to help to find only that 20%.

You might be perfect in every other way - a physical specimen with a solid cock and live 10 miles away, and love what we love sexually speaking, but if you are relatively uncaring or thoughtless regarding the how of communications (relative to how we will aways behave toward you) - BUT, if your standards for dealing with people are much different than ours, we'll move on with no delay.

We are not here to seek endlessly, we are here to FIND. We're not here to "play" with the site features like "friends" and "points" (don't even know what this is). We do not get out erotic fix from the SITE - we use the site to find people.

Hopefully having written this info here for others will help streamline our process... and for you too.

If this resonates with you, please get in touch.
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