I have been a member of citymixx.com for many it was a very good site ago. Over the past 8 yrs it has changed drastically with the fake profiles and citymixx.com paid profiles help keep gold membership up. I have mostly always had a gold membership and I let it laps recently view it from a standard members view. It sucks be very blunt. anyone not aware if you send a IM a standard member can't reply it without a gold membership or so that could be why someone doesn't respond. citymixx.com went through a time where you could send and reply IM's as a standard then they changing it only 3 a day now it appears none without membership or . As for fake profiles and citymixx.com paid profiles I get 5 flirts and views a day from oversees and California NY mostly trash which effects people being able interact with real serious simular minded people. Basically citymixx.com has gone from one of the best swinger sites possible nearly pointless in the last yrs it is sad see the decline.