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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2018 6:56 pm

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
Photo time Male nude partial nude d15c
A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

Virtual Symposium
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Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
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Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Sinday hobbies πŸ™‚
Posted:Aug 19, 2018 11:47 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 7:16 pm
Homemade pancakes, farm fresh eggs and brats for breakfast, well brunch, today.

As the summer is winding down here in the badlands, the messages and views start to pick up like clockwork on the dating site. Lol

But apart from that there are hobbies and yard work to keep me busy. I have gardens that need tending, pigs to throw apples at (not at the pigs directly but into thier pen.. you get the idea), things to do before winter.

One new hobby I am picking up is fly fishing!
Its a hobby that I can do myself , keeps me outside, can be technical.

I asked around and found out a friend of mine was a fishing guide in his past life, so bonus! he can help me figure this out without the hassle of going to the stores.
So ya, ordering my rod n reel today.

I'm abour done cooking, so sexy bloggers enjoy the sinday!
We are under smoke still, but not as bad as yesterday, going to get the lawns mowed up and fruit picked, salmon filleted, salmon ready for candy time...

What are your hobbies? Interests?
Exercise? Meditation,?

Of course most of my interests are sex and pleasure based, my ladywood is humming away today. Lol
Pre-sinday not quite coffee 😊
Posted:Aug 18, 2018 3:20 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 12:18 pm
So under a blanket of smoke and not wanting to go outside today, I got a bit of reading in and a bit of me-time.

Reading a few blogs on the other site and I had to chuckle at a younger fella posting how much he's a horndog yada yada yada. But every question he asks I can top it by 5.
One more thing I did learn with dating in the last 12 years, I'm a fkn horndog lol
I love lots of sex, I'm open to a whole bunch of situations and sexploring.
AND even with the hookup guys it was hard to find good sex, never mind one that could keep up with me. Lol
My experience is not odd though, I hear that from lots of women with the difficulty in finding good sex.

Anyhoo, when it comes to experiences I'm pretty sure that we all have different ones. I have learned to not disclose many of mine, apparently it can be intimidating.. . I guess.

So sexy bloggers,
How open are you with chatting about your experiences or fantasies?
Finally Friday!
Posted:Aug 17, 2018 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 11:27 am
Beer o'clock somewhere.

Posted:Aug 15, 2018 10:16 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2018 8:02 am
I like many of the photos I have posted over the , some where posted because I wanted to share, some where posted for a boost for my ego, and some where posted just so I could feel that shallow validation of being desired by someone.
In real life its not often I noticed, men have proven to me time and again they want conventionally attractive women....so online is the only place someone like me would be able to show that there's more to a woman than just a pretty face.
( sure the mgtow/mra are going to go "Ha! I knew it" at this point)

Being sexually explorative, well that's been around since my mid teens. Lol
Being open to kink, since my late teens.
The struggle to find partners, since my early teens. Lol

I not very photogenic so I don't have thousands of selfies. Lol
But I do keep my favorite photos in the vault.

That was one of the very first photos I posted online. It never got me much attention but I like it.
So when people go on n in about confidence is sexy, I know for fact they are still referring to attractive women, its just the nature of society, no amount of chest thumping will change peoples viewsof physical attractiveness.

As for photos, I am planning a photoshoot for this month so hoping there will be a photo or two to share with everyone.
So now, just trying to work out what I want to wear that is kink friendly.
I thinking of boudoir photos, but most of those require the face to be seen.

Anyway, sexy bloggers....
Rejection over photos is something not sure I will ever get over, it just doesn't sting as much anymore but still chips away at the confidence. Lol

Someone will say something nice about my sexy pics, shallow validation is fine today.

Ps, women don't have it as easy as you like to believe.
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Another tues...
Posted:Aug 14, 2018 4:01 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2018 7:06 pm
Lost in thought and wonder about a sex based industry that is starting to cater to women's desires.
Yes, sensual massage, tantric teachings, sex just how you desire, good company, a plus one for a public function... there are men available for women but the market is small, niche, inly available in large cities. Legalities also limit it.

But I'm glad I'm not the only one searching for a better experience!
Reading those artcles around women that pay for 'sex' gave me some hope that I will find those experiences one day!
Oh I know many will pipe up and say that any dic should be fine, obviously they haven't been a female meeting men for sex. Lol. When I am looking for passionate hot kinky sex that leaves me breathless and satiated I won't find that with some dude just humping away thinking about some hot chick he seen and wishing it wasn't me that he has to touch cos hes' tired of masturbating. (Intentional bad sentence).

But ya, it will take some time before more women start looking for the better experience. I have been searching for a very long time now, so finding good sex is not as easy as it sounds.

Dating or searching for dating/relationships is frustrating most times with most guys just looking for fun. The only way to find good sex is to find someone that actually likes you, but then you end up still frustrated for a host of other reasons. The only place to find men open to ongoing casual partners is on a paid dating site.......so ya still searching. Lol

The travel trips that more n more women are doing to find sex, romance, excitement, ... helps me understand that its not just me that can't find sex. Lol

Anyway, ramble for the day.
If it was that easy to find compatible partners then we wouldn't be sitting here masturbating.
Moanday in the smog
Posted:Aug 13, 2018 11:33 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 11:21 am
So spent sinday thinkin about cam time.
Roght now it looks like once a month, but needing that sexytime for some excitement.

At any rate I had to check if it was still photo worthy. Lol

The kink site didn't think it was that hot... but I think it still takes good pics.
Sinday coffee in the badlands
Posted:Aug 12, 2018 10:11 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2018 11:13 am
As with most of the province we are smoked in this morning, so its been a quiet morning on the farm and not even a peep out of the bids. Kinda eerie actually with no birds singing, but its one of those mornings where snuggling in bed would be ideal.

But alas,
I'm sitting here in my uber sexy joggers and socks (cos mozzies suck) watching the news while sipping my dark coffee.

Pondering breakfast and sex... no surprises there though
Sex that is, breakfast will be venison kielbasa and greek yogurt pancakes.

Solo time
I have learned to limit my masturbation and 'porn' viewing time, I am learning to rely more on my imagination instead of visual stimulation, and... well...
When I was rubbing one out this morning and even last night, it was a weird combination of being turned on and trying to remember what penetration by a real cock felt like. Dont get excited as I use a clit vibe for orgasms, I dont use dildos most times.
That also means that my fantasy is around basic penetration from someone that is actually friendly to me...yanno someone that doesnt have that look in thier eye that just sees me as a crunchy sock.
Someone that is actually excited and aroused to have sex with me - that is what my fap fodder is comprised of. Plus the thought crossedmy mind in mid fap "when was the last time I had hot morning sex"...almost killed the ladyboner but then thoughts of the last guy I did that with filled that void and voila orgasm. (It almost crossed my mind that I will end up with a stuck orgasm and have to spend the day pent up).

Occasionally I will think of mfm, but I know that turns most guys off so I try and limit how much I think of my personal fantasies.

So ya, it does make me a little sad that my fap time is so basic but it is what it is we can't all have the sex we desire. Lol, if we got the sex we desired then we wouldnt have to be online at all.

And then...
I had to chuckle at this photo, in the first comment, that I didn't notice the remote control on the bed. At least men understand size reference with remotes and beer cans. Lol

Enjoy the day sexy bloggers,
What is your go-to wank fodder?
Is it pretty standard stuff like FF porn, or strictly visual or just the sound, or what have you?
Nut juice πŸ€”
Posted:Aug 11, 2018 9:02 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2018 1:37 pm
Just because you can't say it with a straight face...

We are smoked in here from the widfires and expecting more lightening today...

But in that mood where I want breakfast, or a nap, or run one out

Enjoy your day
Quick ques about cams...
Posted:Aug 10, 2018 10:20 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2018 10:45 am
It's been a long while since the last time I was able to cam on here, one of the big site upgrades kicked my profile off of the cam function and then my laptop died last . Lol. Plus searching for vanilla dude put the cam idea on the back burner for the time being.

But seeings how dating is a dead end for sexually compatible men and sex is few and far between... I am thinking about relying on cams to get my sexytime back into my life,


Is this site allowing regular women to cam or is it just hot young cam models now?
Try again, motivational...
Posted:Aug 10, 2018 9:35 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2018 10:44 am

Sounds easy enough.

Enjoy your Friday
Choices πŸ€”
Posted:Aug 9, 2018 9:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2018 9:14 am

Considering men will only be open to ongoing if you meet him on a paid dating site; means I have to wait until they are open to meeting during the short fall window. Lol
And that window hasn't started yet.

Approaching men first hasn't worked at all.
Waiting for them to approach first means I could be waiting a long time, as men only approach attractive/young women. Lol

Kinda the dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

Looking for men open to ongoing really shouldn't be this difficult, ... but I do suppose they have thier pick of women when it comes to ongoing.

Anyway it's going to be a hot one today.

I know I have asked before about if men are open to being called first for sex, I have asked how many would be open to ongoing sex partners... I have asked if you put the effort into the sex if she messaged first, do you even try to make it mutual pleasure if she called you for a bootycall... I have asked if you think less of women that don't need or want a fulltime relationship.... I have asked if you are ooen to chatting with less attractive women and not just the 10's.....

I see so much hate out there right now, I really wonder what's to become of social interactions between men and women. Its pretty difficult to talk to men in real life, but then I learned to just go with 'if hes chatting with me it means hes married/attached'. Lol

So sexy bloggers,
Are you still sociable in real life?
Chatting with people in general and not just hot chicks.

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