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cinnamon0133 53F  
19541 posts
9/14/2018 12:30 pm
Random Question


Does sex mean anything to you, or is it just cum and move on to the next person?

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photoguy_009 58M
7 posts
9/24/2018 12:45 pm

It depends on who it is with. If it ias someone special, I want to enjoy the moment, even afterwards.
If it is someone I just hook-up with, I just want to eat her pussy and hear her moan and groan over and over.


citizen4722 60M  
57876 posts
9/15/2018 8:05 am

It means more than wham! Bam! Thank you Ma'am! to me.
Why rush something as good as that.


New2Midlo 46M  
236 posts
9/14/2018 6:58 pm

Is there a C option?

I never cum and run, but I can't say it's always meaningful. Even with someone who I care for deeply, we may begin making love, connecting, etc. but always wind up fucking, focusing solely on maximizing our pleasure.

On the fwb side, those who I 'just sleep with' are always women whose company I enjoy. And being super competitive, every encounter finds me going straight for the max difficulty moves and try to stick the perfect landing, in a manner that even impresses the Russian judges. There's a level of trust involved, when pushing a woman's boundaries, but it's ultimately just sex. No one cums and runs, but there's no deeper meaning to it.


HeartCollector 61F  
6024 posts
9/14/2018 5:01 pm

If I get to the point of wanting to have sex with a man, it means something. I’m not a fly-by-nighter.

The gladdest hours we know are those shared with a friend or two. Wilbur D. Nesbit


cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 4:06 pm

    Quoting Freeonereturns:
    It's common to say with my spouse it's love which I agree. But for me there has to be at least like with others, some kind of connection other then having parts.

    I know that limits me but to be honest I've found it does not. When we were a couple or now just myself I can make a call at any time and meet with someone in my small circle. We are truely friends and care for eachother and being so very comfortable we have incredible sex. Numbers mean nothing to me, more like golf where the lowest score wins. Or scores as it is.
Nicely said!

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cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 4:05 pm

    Quoting Nimothy777:
    As the guy above said, "if it with someone I care about it does. if its with a fuckbuddy then no its just fun."

    I may not like it, but it is how I really feel.
You are honest, that is rare and I appreciate your answer

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cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 4:03 pm

    Quoting BAMPB:
    Sex means something to me. It means that I trust someone enough to share my body and vulnerabilities-indeed, my life-with them I am not the cum and run type. At the same time, sex means nothing to me. I understand the conflict in those two statements, but it is not the sex that has meaning for me, per sé, although it may sound like it

    It is the friendship and trust that it is at the foundation...not the sex itself...
I understand what you mean, I agree!

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cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 3:55 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Between us it's sharing Love...With others it's just fun and making pleasure
I'm happy that works for you I don't understand sharing my spouse, if I love my spouse then why would I want anyone else or allow him to have others? I cant wrap my head around that. But that is me, like I said I'm glad you found what makes you 2 happy

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cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 3:52 pm

    Quoting bker4ever:
    if it with someone I care about it does. if its with a fuckbuddy then no its just fun
I cant just have sex just for the act
I have to like and be comfortable with the person I'm with

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cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 3:51 pm

    Quoting cupllookinn4fun:
    For the wife and I it's both, between her and I it is very meaningful BUT when we are sharing/swapping it is only physical and for fun.
That's great! I'm glad you have found what works for you. Personally I've always felt marriage is a vow NOT to be broken. I can't just have sex for the sake of sex
That is just using someone like a piece of meat. I have to connect emotionally and like the person I'm with.

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jisselin1966 52M
172 posts
9/14/2018 3:46 pm

Personnaly, I need some seduction, some connections. Sex for sex is not for me...


JuBee513 61M  
26 posts
9/14/2018 2:56 pm

Sex the first time means we're checking each other out to see if there's something to build on. If it turns out to only be the one time then it only means a memory otherwise it means a beginning.


GreenEyedLady_60 58F  
1560 posts
9/14/2018 2:16 pm

It means something to me....

Casual sex of the one night stand kind, or sharing of a partner is just not for me. I need a connection of more than just sexual attraction to have sex with someone. I need to know them...and at the very least like them, for me to want to share myself with someone.

Happy Friday

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Freeonereturns 57F  
285 posts
9/14/2018 2:02 pm

It's common to say with my spouse it's love which I agree. But for me there has to be at least like with others, some kind of connection other then having parts.

I know that limits me but to be honest I've found it does not. When we were a couple or now just myself I can make a call at any time and meet with someone in my small circle. We are truely friends and care for eachother and being so very comfortable we have incredible sex. Numbers mean nothing to me, more like golf where the lowest score wins. Or scores as it is.


Nimothy777 61M  
106 posts
9/14/2018 1:23 pm

As the guy above said, "if it with someone I care about it does. if its with a fuckbuddy then no its just fun."

I may not like it, but it is how I really feel.


BAMPB 40F  
24 posts
9/14/2018 1:14 pm

Sex means something to me. It means that I trust someone enough to share my body and vulnerabilities-indeed, my life-with them I am not the cum and run type. At the same time, sex means nothing to me. I understand the conflict in those two statements, but it is not the sex that has meaning for me, per sé, although it may sound like it

It is the friendship and trust that it is at the foundation...not the sex itself...


benard69 63M/63F  
3496 posts
9/14/2018 1:12 pm

Between us it's sharing Love...With others it's just fun and making pleasure


bker4ever 60M  
116 posts
9/14/2018 12:54 pm

if it with someone I care about it does. if its with a fuckbuddy then no its just fun


cupllookinn4fun 47M/38F  
3 posts
9/14/2018 12:44 pm

For the wife and I it's both, between her and I it is very meaningful BUT when we are sharing/swapping it is only physical and for fun.


cinnamon0133 53F  
16532 posts
9/14/2018 12:30 pm

Happy Friday

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