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shedevil3006
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Exclusive Sex Partners vs One-Timers

Steady vs Occassional, has just reached its closing point.. we are now going to discuss the options of
Exclusive sex vs one-time only sex

why is it so hard to find a steady fuck buddy?You guys are always talking about how much you want sex and need it..but where are you when a girl needs it.


Sinblkm
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Because there is more to a fuck buddy then just having sex. Most of mine dwindle because of scheduling issues and time restraints. There is also sexual/personal compatibility, them not understanding what "fuck buddy" actually means, boundary issues, and any random day to day drama.

Sometimes it can be as difficult as having a committed relationship.

What type of problems are you running into?



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rm_Mzlilvixen
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Yes, have a friend w/benefits is hard sometimes due to availabilty and being able to at the same time or living on opposite sides of town...

I don't have fuck buddies...I have fwb

UTSA11
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Sinblkm said it best. Just gotta find someone who knows that those two words mean and has a decent schedule.

shedevil3006
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quote Sinblkm:
Because there is more to a fuck buddy then just having sex. Most of mine dwindle because of scheduling issues and time restraints. There is also sexual/personal compatibility, them not understanding what "fuck buddy" actually means, boundary issues, and any random day to day drama. Sometimes it can be as difficult as having a committed relationship. What type of problems are you running into?
my biggest problem is, steady sex, not getting it enough..if I could trade the 3 occassionals for a STEADY FUCK... i would be in heaven
but you are right scheduling issues are on of the biggest problems.
Thanks for your insight..

shedevil3006
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quote rm_Mzlilvixen:
Yes, have a friend w/benefits is hard sometimes due to availabilty and being able to at the same time or living on opposite sides of town... I don't have fuck buddies...I have fwb
I have tried the FWB doesnt seem to work out in my favor.. I am always the giver and now I just want a steady fuck buddy

Sinblkm
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quote rm_Mzlilvixen:
Yes, have a friend w/benefits is hard sometimes due to availabilty and being able to at the same time or living on opposite sides of town... I don't have fuck buddies...I have fwb
Shit, it's harder to find a good fwb then a fb.

Good luck with your search Shedevil. Hope you find a young pup who is eager to please



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rm_Mzlilvixen
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Well, if you can find someone you have the same interests as you then it is not hard to get a FWB.

Good luck all in your search.

shedevil3006
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quote rm_Mzlilvixen:
Well, if you can find someone you have the same interests as you then it is not hard to get a FWB. Good luck all in your search.
Thanks guys for your insight, either way I am still craving more !

silentone4321
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looking for a fwb or fb...just something real and consistent...let me know

shedevil3006
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Thanks, but you really need to read my profile before you start handing out offers..this goes for Silentone4321 too,
this is another area that ticks me off about guys and is a turn off..

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I thinks peoples personal scheduling issues like work, kids, other things they have prior commitments to make or brake the amount of time one can spend with a FWB or fuck buddy or even a GF or BF. Everyone is a freak in their mind and has tons of things they want to do but timing is a real life speed bump. So i say while no one schedule can ever be perfect and most of the time even close, you have to do and enjoy the time you have to explore, pleasure, and enjoy those times you do get to fuck and play.

shedevil3006
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quote markm6988:
I thinks peoples personal scheduling issues like work, kids, other things they have prior commitments to make or brake the amount of time one can spend with a FWB or fuck buddy or even a GF or BF. Everyone is a freak in their mind and has tons of things they want to do but timing is a real life speed bump. So i say while no one schedule can ever be perfect and most of the time even close, you have to do and enjoy the time you have to explore, pleasure, and enjoy those times you do get to fuck and play.
AS much as I hate to say this I AGREE ! you are right.. I suppose I will have to resort to Toys ! until my ideal fuck buddy comes along..or maybe I can find a boy toy to serve my needs lol haha

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quote shedevil3006:
Thanks, but you really need to read my profile before you start handing out offers..this goes for Silentone4321 too, this is another area that ticks me off about guys and is a turn off..
as standard members...most wont be able to read your profile, which is one of the many problems I have with this site. I certainly understand that it is a turn off to most that are contacted by people who dont meet the criteria...but blame the site not the individual. If I see someone I like...i'll try to contact them...if i hear from them great if not...then I usually chalk it up to "not interested" and try to move on. However, with all the bugs this site has...u never know if they are truely not interested or the sight is just that fucked up.
As for the steady FB...scheduling is always an issue...no matter how u slice it...and as many have stated the key problem....but as lovely as u are ...i'm sure eventually u will find the right fit...

shedevil3006
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OH yes you can.. I am a standard member and I read profiles....
1 way to see a profile is to view it on a gallery page and place the cursor over the pic and a small pop up will appear of the profile
2nd way is to earn privileges from the site by being an active member
NO MORE EXCUSES

rm_Mzlilvixen
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Actually, it is not the easy for the men on here to view profiles like it is us women. They don't get over 100 views a day to look at profiles, or even glance at the ones on the home page. Plus, someone has to email them first, before they can email back. This is all being a standard member.

shedevil3006
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quote rm_Mzlilvixen:
Actually, it is not the easy for the men on here to view profiles like it is us women. They don't get over 100 views a day to look at profiles, or even glance at the ones on the home page. Plus, someone has to email them first, before they can email back. This is all being a standard member.
I am a standard member and I had to earn my privileges.. and If i go off the site for say 48 hrs and I don't log in I have to start all over, so the secret is to be an active member and to , and I have been a member for years on here.

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quote shedevil3006:
I am a standard member and I had to earn my privileges.. and If i go off the site for say 48 hrs and I don't log in I have to start all over, so the secret is to be an active member and to , and I have been a member for years on here.
shedevil...u ladies have more privilages then us men as a standard member. And those little pop ups you can see when you scroll over a photo dont always reveal everything someone is looking for. As far as earning points...well yeah i guess if i spent day and night on here maybe I could earn enough to view one profile...but since the max we can earn is 300 points we have to use them sparingly. So for us guys...sometimes the only way to find these things out is to try and chat...and in all honesty..i have made alot of good friends on here even though I didnt fit their criteria...hey u never know...u may be missing that daimond in the ruff just because they arent able to view profiles...hehehe...or is that just a good exit strategy...lol

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quote likalot_TX:
shedevil...u ladies have more privilages then us men as a standard member. And those little pop ups you can see when you scroll over a photo dont always reveal everything someone is looking for. As far as earning points...well yeah i guess if i spent day and night on here maybe I could earn enough to view one profile...but since the max we can earn is 300 points we have to use them sparingly. So for us guys...sometimes the only way to find these things out is to try and chat...and in all honesty..i have made alot of good friends on here even though I didnt fit their criteria...hey u never know...u may be missing that daimond in the ruff just because they arent able to view profiles...hehehe...or is that just a good exit strategy...lol:D
You are funny, I read profiles because I have earned the privileges too
and when I went off for 2 days recently I had none and had to restart all over again and I have been a member for many years. Usually the ones that piss me off the most are the ones that are married and claim to be a decent guy, I just don't blow people off for the hell of it..

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quote shedevil3006:
OH yes you can.. I am a standard member and I read profiles.... 1 way to see a profile is to view it on a gallery page and place the cursor over the pic and a small pop up will appear of the profile 2nd way is to earn privileges from the site by being an active member NO MORE EXCUSES :P
There is another way to get almost full view of a profile. Google someones user ID and if it comes up as a readable profile you can replace the browser number, 15 digit number with an underscore after the first 10. hit enter and you can read the person profile, see friends, but not all there pics.

I like finding loop holes



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shedevil3006
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quote Sinblkm:
There is another way to get almost full view of a profile. Google someones user ID and if it comes up as a readable profile you can replace the browser number, 15 digit number with an underscore after the first 10. hit enter and you can read the person profile, see friends, but not all there pics. I like finding loop holes :)
Thats a good one ! so see there are no excuses anymore..

rm_Mzlilvixen
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I guess I will just turn off my profile if that is the case, thanks for the heads up.

likalot_TX
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quote shedevil3006:
You are funny, I read profiles because I have earned the privileges too and when I went off for 2 days recently I had none and had to restart all over again and I have been a member for many years. Usually the ones that piss me off the most are the ones that are married and claim to be a decent guy, I just don't blow people off for the hell of it..
hahahaha...what???... a married guy cant be decent? Shhheesssssh we cant get a break for nothing can we...lol!
Ahhh well...all we can do is try...hehehe!
well as far as me being funny....shiit have ta have a sense of humor to stay sane on this web site...lol
see to many people get pissed over trivial stuff....i may like anal but certainly am not anal...lol...ohhh and just in case some of u pervs are thinking of the wrong kinda anal...lol...i'm refering to providing anal pleasure to a member of the opposite sefemale that is).....lol

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quote Sinblkm:
There is another way to get almost full view of a profile. Google someones user ID and if it comes up as a readable profile you can replace the browser number, 15 digit number with an underscore after the first 10. hit enter and you can read the person profile, see friends, but not all there pics. I like finding loop holes :)
i used to have a prgram that would allow me to see profiles...but when my computer died and i got a new one i lost it...
i'll have to try this method out and see how it works...

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quote Sinblkm:
There is another way to get almost full view of a profile. Google someones user ID and if it comes up as a readable profile you can replace the browser number, 15 digit number with an underscore after the first 10. hit enter and you can read the person profile, see friends, but not all there pics. I like finding loop holes :)
ok...so i gave this a try...but all i came across for u shedevil...was a profile from millionairemate.com...lol...and a blog page...maybe i did something wrong...but i was unable to view your profile....ahhhhhh..maybe if i respond to enough group posts i'll be able to read it...hehehe

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quote likalot_TX:
ok...so i gave this a try...but all i came across for u shedevil...was a profile from millionairemate.com...lol...and a blog page...maybe i did something wrong...but i was unable to view your profile....ahhhhhh..maybe if i respond to enough group posts i'll be able to read it...hehehe
You can Google any user name. What you're looking for is a viewable profile. Once you have that replace the browser number. Google yourself,sounds perverted lol, I think I saw one for you 3rd link from the top.

Or just pay the 19.99 a month, I mean it's only $20. I bought Black Dynamite from wally world yesterday and thought to myself, I prob could of used this $20 for citymixx.com.



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