Enjoying all the experiences life has to offer. Will that include you??? Worked hard to meet many of my financial and professional goals and now can enjoy the fruits of my labors. I’m a business consultant, grown apart from a narcissistic and emotionally abusive spouse. Separated but living together until the leave the nest. I’m an involved dad in my lives, and that comes before my recreation time. Known by people in the communities I work in so discretion is an absolute must. Can’t entertain at home. Can sometimes entertain overnight at hotel during multi day consulting engagements. I’m in my early 50s, 6’3”, average build. I like parks/forests/outdoors, swimming/skinny dipping, comfortable in rural and urban surroundings...although I must admit it’s been a while since I’ve literally had a good roll in a hay barn...any takers? Sexually I’m pretty open to any hetero (no trans) activity, and also enjoy when there are two or more women that want to entertain each other. I’ve enjoyed FMF threesomes where the gals enjoyed each other. I’ve been the surrogate sex date for a couple where he couldn’t anymore and she still had needs. Also done the cuckhold thing with the husband present. Prefer the husband to be quiet and not incessantly direct the action, and allow she and I to enjoy, or let at least me know the script beforehand. My unique experience to date was to help settle a best BJ bet between two women. My work schedule is varied most weeks, with mornings, daytime, afternoons, and evenings possible to meet depending on the week and day. Ask any questions. Communication is a great aphrodisiac.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is a female; single, married, separated, divorced, widowed, open relationship, or couple, for a long term FWB relationship.

Looking for someone confident and comfortable in the nude, somewhat daring (fun in your pool or hot tub while the neighbors can be heard over the fence) and explorative (would you be willing to play some adult “spin the bottle type” games with another female from the citymixx.com site or would you be the middle of a spit roast or DP w your hubby/guy). I do love the full “porn movie” finish, so pulling me out and finishing me with your hand and/or mouth on your breasts, face, mouth, and draining me dry or licking me clean are not a must but definitely all pluses.

My work has me traveling across IL, and now across multiple states, and getting together would be dependent on when I’m next in that area, which with interstate friends could mean months, so my ideal partner would understand this situation. I’m not opposed to a one time hookup, but there’s something about familiarity that can make things extra enjoyable.

I like an encounter to have multiple rounds for both of us, but understand if time or energy may limit that and expect the same understanding.

My schedule dictates I have availability at varying times of the day, and hope my parter would as well.

Not caught up in the 6 pack or 5% bodyfat thing. Be comfortable enough with who you are, wrinkles and all, that you are able to enjoy the experience....the only numbers my ideal and I would care about is the number times toes curled, someone had to catch their breath, or goosebumps appeared on skin.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Actually happened in another state a decade ago. I had FWB
relationships w 2 women. They were actually friends and
had met through a swing party. They finally figured out
they were both seeing me and wanted me to tell them who gave
the better bj. Was a very enjoyable time , that turned into
much more...and they even got the courage to enjoy each
other. <br><br>
Nothing like taking care of two women, they taking care
of you, and getting to watch them enjoying each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No....I like the reality of every day people who just like
to have a good time.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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