I'm a smart, self aware (as opposed to self conscious), open-minded, tolerant, adult. I try to be assertive rather than aggressive, confident instead of arrogant, and focused but not obsessed. I could add to that list indefinitely but that would bore most people and if you haven't recognized what i'm getting at by now you probably won't. The point of the exercise is three fold. First, to give you some insight into my character, my thought process, my values. Secondly, to provide this opportunity to admit that while i sometimes fall short of my own stated standards I do consistently try. And finally to emphasize that I am not, if my understanding of the term is correct, an "alpha" male. I get the distinct impression that these men are born not made. I do have competitive urges and I will certainly defend my territory but i have little enthusiasm for being the leader. I don'.t need to be in charge and i have no real desire to control anyone. I am quite capable of being decisive but it's not usually instinctive for me. Rather, i have to decide to make a decision. Upon going back and proof reading I find that what I've written so far might be characterized as dry, somber,or even dour. Please be reassured that my usual demeanor is closer to steadfastly cheerful and optimistic. If I seem a bit pedantic, well, I really don't care. There's bound to be someone out there who enjoys reading this crap as much as i enjoy writing it. I don"t usually speak this way. There's just something about sitting down in front of a keyboard that brings out the latent scholar in me. I makes me want to take my vocabulary down off the shelf, dust it off, and take it for a couple of laps! Physically I'm in very good shape for a sixty year old. I've led a very active life. I largely credit my good health with that fact. Unfortunately I can't attribute it to clean living. I've been told that I'm a considerate and diligent lover. It's been about six months now since my latest break up so i'm not on the rebound and I come with no strings attached. I'm about average in most ways including the size of my erection (who cares how large it is while flaccid? Am I right?) This knowledge combined with the fact that I have been told, with all sincerity, that I'm uncomfortably large in that regard, has led me to the conclusion that compatibility is far more important than size. Size does matter but, bigger isn't always better. So if you can't be satisfied with anything less than "Oh My God Would you look at the size of that thing." I'm probably not your boy. If you want to get real, real fun, real good and you like a laid back relaxed companionship (except for when it's supposed to be more passionate) let's get it on!

My Ideal Person Writing about myself was easy! Hell, I've known me all my life. I think that I am possessed of many fine qualities the most prominent of which perform double service as my most glaring shortcomings. The question, lovely lady, is who are you?
Do I even know what i want? Perhaps you are blessed with delightful and astonishingly virtuous attributes that have never even crossed my mind to desire. It appears that my only recourse is to list what i think I want and trust you to fill in any omissions.
You have healthy self esteem. You know yourself. You like yourself. You even love yourself. It's become a bit of a cliche but how can you love someone else if you can't love yourself? Which leads us to.....
Love. You have a healthy, mature, sane concept of what love is. Unchecked, love can be one of the most destructive of emotions, rivaling hate, jealously, and greed for the amount of havoc created. Personally, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I couldn't love. Why do you think they call it "making love"? I'm not talking about the blind, burning, unquenchable, unreasonable, possessive and jealous passion often referred to as "romantic love". I speak, rather, (of the pompatus of love! ROTRLMA of a love that is informed with knowledge, insight, tolerance, goodwill, cooperation, affection, and humor.....
You have a sense of humor. You can tell the difference between playtime and "An endless aching need," as described in The Rose. We don't take ourselves too seriously lest we suck all the fun out of life. We can accept and enjoy our blessings with childlike enthusiasm tempered by adult restraint and gratitude, recognizant that childish egotism and petulance will only spoil the fun.
I wholeheartedly support the premise that two lonely souls finding one another, against all odds, in this big confusing whirled we inhabit is something to be admired. i'm awestruck in the presence. and I've tried. Thus far in my life I've been a serial monogamist. Simply put, I don't believe that those of us who have not been blessed with the kind of focused duality endorsed by the Elizabethans among others should be condemned to a life of solitude and celibacy. Solitude and celibacy, simply so sex snobs synced in singularity may smugly signal superiority, But, I aliterate.
Be open, fun loving, fun, loving, literate, and sane. I'll do my best to reciprocate. i haven't mentioned physicality. Other than quoting the late great and greatly lamented Prince Rogers Nelson, I'll leave that topic for another time.
"Ain't no particular sign i'm I'm more compatible with
I just want your extra time and your *KISS*

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
J.J. Cale , The grateful Dead , The Offspring, Led Zeppelin,
BlueOyster Cult, Adele

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
That's not how it works for me. Mildly autistic i guess,
Memories or movies or other sexy material.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
flipper! nobody gives blo...... just kidding! Not really.
the cult of personality effects me but doesn't intrigue
me particularly.

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