We are a couple in our late 30's/40's looking for friends to explore with. We are looking for either a female to play with or a bi/heteroflexible couple, but not single guys. We are more interested in finding someone with common interests to ours to develop a friendship and a longer term relationship that includes activities both inside and outside the bedroom. Both of us are educated, have stable jobs, and have our lives in order. We enjoy international travel, hiking, cycling, running, yoga, gardening and a healthy lifestyle. We are non-smokers, eat healthy and stay in shape. We are based in Victoria BC. We like those that have in-shape bodies. You don't have to be thin or athletic, but you should be in shape and make exercise and food choices an important part of your life. The female half prefers guys that are clean-shaven, goats are okay. We also have young ones at home, so we need to work around their schedules too and can't spontaneously head out for a drink or meeting without some advance planning first. Likely we would want to chat a bit first to see if there is interest before setting up a meeting. Feel free to ask us more about ourselves if you are curious.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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