I am recently widowed and not sure what my future world is going to be. So right now I'm not looking for any earth shattering relationship. Rather someone I can do things with and just enjoy life. Looking for a woman for friendship and sexual relationship. I guess FWB would be accurate. To help protect my own privacy, additional pictures are only available for people that I friend. Ask and I'll gladly share them with you. FOR ALL THE PEOPLE OUT OF TOWN: I'm not interested in anyone out of town. I want someone local. I have no desire to relocate or have a long distance relationship. So please respect my wishes and don't try to contact me.

My Ideal Person Someone that enjoys the more simple things. Walks in the woods, relaxing on the beach (I love the beach), a nice glass of wine while watching a movie cuddling on the couch, enjoying friends and family. Someone who is honest and caring that I can trust my dreams and fears with. I don't consider myself super spontaneous. But I do enjoy spur of the moment adventures occasionally. I was into bicycle riding before my time was needed elsewhere and I want to get back into that. Not a fanatic. But a good 20-30 mile ride is what I used to enjoy a couple of times per week in the Metro Parks. Good for the body and good for the mind. I also like going on cruises. Used to go about 1 time per year. I believe there are still adventures left in my life and I want to make them happen. I do want a physical relationship. Yes I mean sexual. That is important to me and something that has been on hold for a long time. There is a lot of pent up desire there. I am fairly adventurous in bed (or wherever we choose to enjoy each other) and hope that you are as well. Nothing out there very far. But I feel that in life and bed, there should be a few things where I say "I probably won't try that again" and many more where I say "I'm not sure but I want to try again and see". If you're not pushing the limits things can get boring.

These are my thoughts as I see them right now. As I learn more about what I want, I'll keep this updated.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We are on a hike in the woods up into the mountains. It is a
warm day and after a while we come across a meadow with a small
inviting pond and decide to cool off in it. Since we haven't
seen anyone on our hike we decide that swimming sans clothing
makes the most sense. We spend some time relaxing in the
cool water. It feels great as it moves around our naked bodies.
We get playful and start splashing and dunking each other.
Each trying to defend the other from touching their exposed
body parts. Things start to heat up between us but the cool
water is starting overstay its welcome to the point that
we decide to continue up in the warm sun. We climb out of the
water and lay down to have the sun dry us off. We continue
touching each other and soon are passionately enjoying
the moment. You straddle me and guide me inside you. You
deliberately go slow and it is driving me crazy. I just want
to be deep inside you. Finally you sit all the way down on
me and start sliding me in and out of you. We hear a noise but
can't decide what it is or where it came from. Maybe someone
is watching. Maybe we are alone. Neither of us care. In some
ways we hope someone is and are giving them a good 'show'.
Pretty soon we both can't hold back any longer and let the
passion take over our bodies in an explosion of mutual pleasure.
You lay down on top of me and let the final ripples of our orgasms
slowly fade away. Too soon it is time to go. So we get dressed
and continue our hike. We pass another couple on the way
and let them know about the nice pond along the trail. Maybe
on our way back we will see them enjoying it as much as we did.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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