Married couple looking to spice it up! We are looking to either add a young man or a 45 and younger woman to our sex life or also a couple to have fun with. Soft swap situation. Hot young guys (20's) really turn her on. We are a very attractive couple. I am very very picky about cleanliness so unless you are clean down there I'm not interested. Please NO drugs and no diseases. We are also not really interested in long term relationships. How I see it going down: for just meeting with a woman we go have lunch, coffee, etc. If there is a chemistry there we can take it from there if not we should be mature enough to go our separate ways with no hard feelings. Either we would play alone or hubby would LOVE to watch also. For couples: Meeting in a bar for drinks, see where it goes... same thing if there is chemistry we take it from there if not we walk away. In the case of adding a young man.. she would like to meet with you first and then talk with hubby about it. Hubby will either watch if we go ahead or be involved since we are new to this we are not sure of how scenarios go all we can go on it how we are feeling at the moment.