I'm a clean cut, professional, mature, successful man living the conventional life looking to finally be true to myself and find others with similar interests. I'm pretty reserved; certainly not as bold in real-life as I am sometimes in IM chats. I am typically quiet when first meeting someone but when I get more comfortable (and/or have a couple beers in me!) can be talkative, sarcastic and fun. Either way, I'm always honest and caring. Friends would describe me as a nice guy. I bet none of them would believe that I would ever be on a site like this! I really am looking for an adult friend (although the friend I want has the same interests as me and so more than just friendship is what's definitely on my mind!). But I have some standards. If you don't shower daily, if your house is a pig-sty, if you barely got out of high school then don't bother contacting me. Also, TV/TS/CD is a turn-off for me. Call me a snob or whatever you want but my time is too valuable to spend chatting, arranging meetings and getting together with someone that I don't find at all attractive. Life is short and I want what this site offers. Whether we've been chatting for a minute or a month, if the conversation turns to actually meeting up, you can trust that I'm serious and I will assume you are too. Please don't mislead me into thinking there will be a meeting if you have no intention of following through. And if you change your mind and don't want to meet, please just be honest with me about why. Finding a friend in this unique arena of life is difficult enough (logistically and emotionally) without being lied to or misled. All that being said, please contact me. I can't wait to get to know you!

My Ideal Person A muscle bear would be a dream come true. But in reality I really just want a regular guy that's honest, clean, and decent looking, who understands the need for normalcy (i.e straight life, family, friends, etc.) but the desire for more. I want a man - hairy but neat, big but not obese, masculine but not sloppy. Too much to ask?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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