Doesn't much seem to matter where I am. Has anyone else concluded that the life of a widow/widower sucks the big one?

My Ideal Person Who the heck knows? I sure don't. After being with one woman for 37 years through all of the dating, and marriage stuff, the good and the bad, I just don't know what, or if, I am seeking an "ideal" person. I'm not even sure there is such a thing when you are just meeting for the first time. To my mind the "ideal relationships" have to be built over time with mutual trust and respect.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A night with lots of oil, mutual massages, and hours of foreplay
intermixed with teasing orgasms.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Fantasized, no. But, I've always been attracted to
Rebecca DeMornay

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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