I am told that I am too honest. I do speak my mind and get labeled by some as an asshole, so be it. Makes life better for all involved if you know exactly where my heart and mind are then leave you to make assumptions and assume wrongly. I believe that even if the truth hurts, tell it. Better to know the truth now then to find out later when it would hurt even more. Honesty and integrity is all we have to work with! Now if you are only interested in being friends I can be the most loyal and trusted friend you could wish for. Although, if friends with benefits better describes what you are here for. Well I'm cool with that too. If a more serious relationship appeals to you I might be down with that as well but, only destiny and fate knows if that will develop or not and they aren't talking. The heart is an involuntary muscle. We cannot control it. The heart wants what the heart wants.

My Ideal Person Let's begin with what I am NOT looking for. If you are one of a growing number of women looking for a man to scam and con your way into some cash. If you have ties to Ghana, f*ck off! I don't want access to to camgirl site, I know how to get there if I choose. Don't even suggest the "I need you to go here to be verified as safe" bullshit. I know what that game is about too. Simple put I have been around the block once or twice. I investigate everything and take nothing online at face value. I doubt 90% of what I see and seriously doubt the rest. If you want to try and get cash from me you would be better off wishing in 1 hand and shi**ing in the other, then watch to see which fills up first...otherwise if you agree with what I stated in my description then you are well on your way to being the one I have been looking for, but there 3 core beliefs that we would have to be in total agreement. HONESTY, TRUST, neither of are obtainable with the third which is COMMUNICATION! See! As I said I speak my mind, getting too old to give a damn who's offended. Odds are your one of those to avoid if your offended anyway! I'm just me thus the screen name and refuse to pretend to be anyone else just to get laid. I have more respect for myself then that.