45 yr old chubby bi male. looking for fun with like minded people. If bi is not your thing, then i understand. I am not looking for groups or sharing. I prefer one on one. I know this is a sex site but I'd like to know there's some connection beyond just between the sheets, I value a brain and am also looking for people that can spark my intellect as well. I'm very open to exploring my sexuality and hopefully yours as well. I'm looking for an ongoing thing rather than a one and done. Prefer someone close by, have varying availability but if we click I'm sure we can make it work. I'm a little shy and probably won't start the conversation unless something really pops out at me and I have to act on it. I'm very open sexually. There is a lot I've tried and a lot I am still willing to experience. Be open and tell me your fantasies and we can see if we can make them come true. I am not hung like a and I don't come with a six pack...but what i do come with is an ear to listen, a willingness to learn and please and a mutual respect that will hopefully keep you coming back for more.

My Ideal Person Someone who is not into shaving themselves. I prefer my partner on the hairy side. I have no idea why but it's definitely a turn on for me. Chubby BBW/BBM is a definite turn on as well. No drugs!!