Hello there. I've been told I'm a caring friend and lover, a very open per, funny (in the good kind of way), sensual, and a good reader of people’s emotions and physical cues. Since I've recently moved to Berlin (after spending several months here last year), I thought it'd be nice to meet some new, and like-minded people — possibly just for a random chat or drink, but if things feel right, maybe for more. (While I think that being with people you love can be very beautiful, I've also had some very emotionally, physically and sexually intense, intimate and fun times with friends and strangers alike — socially, one-on-one, and in group settings — and I think that all kinds and depths of relationships, from new acquaintances to friends to lovers and partners, can be beautiful to explore.) Over the years, I've been lucky enough to explore and indulge my kinks — both by myself, and later on, in some open relationships. And while I think I will always be attracted to women who have very high sex drives, and who are comfortable enough with themselves to do whatever's necessary to satisfy their hunger, lately, I've been spending more time exploring my lovers' bodies, minds and desires, one-on-one, and have very much enjoyed these experiences, too. (That said, and perhaps unsurprisingly, the subjects or fantasies of three- and moresomes do keep coming up, and one of my sexy-lover-friends really wants to explore this side of her sexuality with me which, I think, is really beautiful and sexy.) I'm not a huge fan of labels (as in, they piss me off) — especially when applied to others, but also when they artificially constrain us. To me, relationships should be honest and fluid, and should have the freedom to develop and change according to what everyone involved wants and is comfortable with. This might mean that friendships become closer and/or intimate, that creative energies spill over into physical intimacy and passion, or that they might become platonic again, or that people remain friends or acquaintances; it also means that relationships based mostly on sex can continue to be enjoyed as such, or that they can develop into close friendships or even love (albeit an open and non-monogamous kind)... Put another way, sexual freedom — within and outside of truly open, honest and respectful relationships — has always felt so very natural to me, and if I /had/ to pick a term to describe the kinds of relationships I'm drawn to, it would be 'polyamorous' as I think it subsumes the above ideas while also opening the door to so much more. (If you've read 'The Ethical Slut', for example, you'll known where I'm coming from.) Anyway, if you're still here (thanks!), then I should probably close by saying that, those quirks aside, I'm a relatively normal and down to earth kind of guy who loves to learn, create, and bask in the beauty of nature and caring people. I'm in average shape (though I'm working on that), and I love the outdoors, birds, playing and listening to music, the beach, science, hacking (in its original sense) and the odd movie, be it a compelling drama, a good comedy (British or otherwise), a horror flick or a porno full of horny, lustful people enjoying themselves. And I also enjoy meeting people over a drink, a hike, or in a park somewhere (preferably once things start to warm up a bit more).

My Ideal Person So, if you can relate to the above, are comfortable with who you are and your desires, I would love to hear from you. And don't get me wrong — I really love one-on-one sex, but if you also enjoy (or want to talk about, explore or experience) swinging, group sex and/or polyamory, it'd be doubly great to hear from you. (And while I am bi-curious, that's only really something I'd be interested in exploring as part of a mixed three- or moresome, if it felt right and natural to do so in the moment.)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Fisting, Gangbangs, Exhibitionism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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