I'm recently separated and want to find sex positive women who are looking for friendship and great sex. I'm physically fit and swim and do land sports and workouts. Would love to find someone that can be my sex workout! I'm looking to expand my boundaries and would love to be mentored by someone experienced in non-vanilla activities. Interested in mature, uninhibited woman either around my age or younger women who enjoy being with an older man. I work in energy/environmental policy and compose music on the side. You can listen to some of my work, but the site does not allow me to post the address where you can listen online, so just ask and I can send it to you.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for sex positive women ~40-70 years of age who are looking for a fit, energetic older man to have regular sex. I am STD-free and would prefer someone who is clean and willing to stay clean so we can have raw sex without barriers. I live in the Goleta-Santa Barbara area and would prefer someone close so we can have sex on a regular basis. That said, I do own a Prius and don't mind driving to someone looking to spend some extended play time.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

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