INTJ, thoughtful, creative, fit, independent, relaxed and discrete. Originally from Amsterdam but lived in Italy, France and now new in this part of the UK. Been solitary for a while after a longterm (open) relationship ended during lockdown. Now ready to meet new people again. Not looking for anything in particular at the moment, just see what will happen. I love a good conversation, just chill and hang out but -let's just be honest- I'm here for all of that but most of all I want to meet someone for wild, passionate and preferably kinky sex. I am experienced with D/s dynamics, am sexually rather dominant by nature but very easy going all the same. I'm just wired to take the lead and love the playfulness and eroticism of sexual games as sex indeed does start in your head. No taboos, everything open for discussion. Always. Discretion and respect is a must though. I'm a passionate lover and can be both rough and gentle. We're allowed to behave and act as wild and kinky as we want but still and always feel I'm a gentleman with the responsibility of both our joy and wellbeing in hand and mind. I have a high sex drive and simply enjoy sex as an adult playground and am always eager to explore. Aside from actually meeting up I've also come to enjoy online conversations through IM or exchange of messages. I think there is something very sexy and at times even deep about chatting with an -in fact- stranger. It's safe, it's fun, can be interesting, is a great way to get a feel for each other and I consider myself to be a great listener and understanding so don't be shy... What and how to write a in profile? In the end it's about energy and chemistry, the intangible. Let's get acquainted, chat, meet up and behave... Or not? PS. Decided to stop my Golden Membership for the time being. Will possibly be back later. Can't read messages anymore as a standard member. If you're for real and want to contact me react to a post on the forum. This I will still be able to read.

My Ideal Person I'm extremely liberal, easy going and non-judgemental. I don't have a 'type' but I do appreciate authenticity, some intelligence and an ability for selfreflection so Just be all of you. I like someone who knows what she wants, I thoroughly enjoy exploring to find out what you might not have known but will like and I absolutely adore someone who wants to learn to love what it is I want from you. And just to be clear, that is absolutely everything...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
A, B, C.. Z

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really or not more than non-celebrities. They hold
no special charm over me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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